Dear All :
Today in the modern world, we can easily observe that our Community is gradually coming down. Today our boys are facing lot of problems in getting suitable alliance and due to migration to developed countries and higher studies by girls girls are also expecting their partners suitable to her qualifications. Most of the girls are not preferring to choose persons who studied in Veda Padashala even though the boy studied upto Ganam and financially sound. Nonethless to mention here even the poor girls who studied upto 10th class are expecting highly qualified persons as her partner. Also we are all aware that the girls who studied higher studies are selecting her partner even for inter caste marriage. Parents having no sons and only one daughter are not at all showing interest in marry her. Since things of Brahmins Community are going in a wrong track there are several cases of divorce and the girls are facing miserable situation without life partner.
Many people expressed even our own community people are helping each other in proposing good alliance mainly for boys who are many in number as bachelor including those who studied Vedas.
Situation being like this, the Customs and Culture of Brahmins are slowly vanishing. Many Brahmin Boys whether he is a married or bachelor not performing atleast yearly Shrardham. The reason being apart from above reasons, the Vadhyars are demanding high dakshinas. No doubt, we have to give Sambhavanai to Vadhyar for his day to day living purpose. A person who is rich can afford to pay the demanded amount as Dakshina to Vadhyar. How can a person pay the demanded dakshina who is facing problem for his day to day bread. We have in our surroundings many so called Vadhyars who learned the procedure and came to Vadhyar profession. They are also having the same attitude of demanding high. Under the circumstances, most of the middle class people left with no option to adopt a simple way of giving Annadhanam to orphan house on shrardha thithi.
When our Community ratio is deminishing gradually why Vadhyar should not help the poor and middle class Brahmins in doing atleast Shrardham and Nithyavathi ceremonies. Brahmin should not hit on ones stomach and survive. We have to learn the helping nature atleast from now onwards.
Brahmin Community established many forums, associations, trust, welfare Centres, etc. etc. at many cities. Why rich Brahmin people should help poor brahmin family in doing our Hindu Dharma? In the same way we all should come forward to develop our customs and culture and help bachelor boys to get married for which we should propose atleast through this forum.
This website matrimonial service should be expanded and should not ask for new registration for uploading the profile.
I have discussed this topic in many websites forum but brahmin community people are not coming forward to be unite. Let us try atleast in this forum.
Regards,
VKSWAMY
Today in the modern world, we can easily observe that our Community is gradually coming down. Today our boys are facing lot of problems in getting suitable alliance and due to migration to developed countries and higher studies by girls girls are also expecting their partners suitable to her qualifications. Most of the girls are not preferring to choose persons who studied in Veda Padashala even though the boy studied upto Ganam and financially sound. Nonethless to mention here even the poor girls who studied upto 10th class are expecting highly qualified persons as her partner. Also we are all aware that the girls who studied higher studies are selecting her partner even for inter caste marriage. Parents having no sons and only one daughter are not at all showing interest in marry her. Since things of Brahmins Community are going in a wrong track there are several cases of divorce and the girls are facing miserable situation without life partner.
Many people expressed even our own community people are helping each other in proposing good alliance mainly for boys who are many in number as bachelor including those who studied Vedas.
Situation being like this, the Customs and Culture of Brahmins are slowly vanishing. Many Brahmin Boys whether he is a married or bachelor not performing atleast yearly Shrardham. The reason being apart from above reasons, the Vadhyars are demanding high dakshinas. No doubt, we have to give Sambhavanai to Vadhyar for his day to day living purpose. A person who is rich can afford to pay the demanded amount as Dakshina to Vadhyar. How can a person pay the demanded dakshina who is facing problem for his day to day bread. We have in our surroundings many so called Vadhyars who learned the procedure and came to Vadhyar profession. They are also having the same attitude of demanding high. Under the circumstances, most of the middle class people left with no option to adopt a simple way of giving Annadhanam to orphan house on shrardha thithi.
When our Community ratio is deminishing gradually why Vadhyar should not help the poor and middle class Brahmins in doing atleast Shrardham and Nithyavathi ceremonies. Brahmin should not hit on ones stomach and survive. We have to learn the helping nature atleast from now onwards.
Brahmin Community established many forums, associations, trust, welfare Centres, etc. etc. at many cities. Why rich Brahmin people should help poor brahmin family in doing our Hindu Dharma? In the same way we all should come forward to develop our customs and culture and help bachelor boys to get married for which we should propose atleast through this forum.
This website matrimonial service should be expanded and should not ask for new registration for uploading the profile.
I have discussed this topic in many websites forum but brahmin community people are not coming forward to be unite. Let us try atleast in this forum.
Regards,
VKSWAMY
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